22 October 2007

why do some people do such evil things?
don't they get guilty, or don't they feel bad?
and.. how are you supposed to deal with that?

86 comments:

sam said...

i guess, you cant please everybody. there are people who at times lets you down coz of their egocentric self and envy towards a person. well, as paris hilton says "if people want to hate you for no reason at all, let them, cause obviously they are either insecure, jealous or simply a b**ch". whoah, my maganda din palang quote from her,. hehe. dont let it get into you, kundi ikaw din talo. - sam.. =)smile and be happy always.

Ryan Salvanera said...

If this is about the Glorietta incident, then I am just as baffled as you are. I guess, it just goes to show how messed up some people's beliefs can be. Don't get me wrong, I am all for respecting other people's opinions and belief, but they should also do the same.

To whoever is responsible for this, my wish is that they be skinned and burned alive. =P

I guess we just have to cope with it and move on.

ann said...

do you think the best solution is to "pray for them"?

jagaruga said...

If you are referring to the glorietta bombing, I agree with you, I don't see the point why a person should bomb a mall. Sad thing indeed.

jodel of pasig said...

maybe because of the environment where they grew. . .
or maybe they are having fun doing those things. . .
siguro naman hindi, baka may dahilan sila kya sila gumagawa ng masasamang bagay. . .(we dont know. . .)

by the way. . . ate bianca, how do you feel nung pinasok si ate mariel dun sa loob PBB house? tsaka bakit ka napapaluha nung iyak ng iyak siya sa loob?

ja said...

maybe because they were born to do those kind of things or maybe they're happpy doing evil things.. i just dont mind them, bahala sila hanggang mapagod sila hehe.. sometimes i told to myself "God will take care of them." always remember karma strikes back 3 times.. :)

Anonymous said...

what's wrong ate bianca?
are you ok?
well, i think may reason sila kung bakit nila ginawa yun..
malay natin!
just PRAY na lang.
promise! effective yan.

-mitch

don said...

i'm sure you are talking about the "bombing" at Glorietta 2... well, regardless if the issue is current or not (whether it be the G2 bomb or not), there are still a lot of evil people around.. 9/11 sa US, bombings here sa Pinas (remember LRT incident?)... it's just soo sad...

At times like these, we have to be strong even if we are so weak and afraid.. and be an inspiration to others to do the same.. sana compassion can be passed to anyone by merely touching them, but no... we have to educate ourselves, lalo na our children or even not our own children... teach them morals, good character, compassion, sympathy, goodness...

I wish to do that and I hope God will help me achieve that goal.. and I wish that same goal for each and every one of us...

James said...

Why? What happened?
I always ask myself those questions.. Well I don't know..

zel_quing@yahoo.com said...

"My importance to the world is relatively small. On the other
hand, my importance to myself is tremendous. I am all I have
to work with, to play with, to suffer and to enjoy. It is not
the eyes of others that I am wary of, but of my own. I do not
intend to let myself down more than I can possibly help, and
I find that the fewer illusions I have about myself or the
world around me, the better company I am for myself."
Noel Coward {1899-1973 British Writer}

cool_as_ice said...

man by nature is good...therefore, people who choose to do evil things are not human...hehehehe

you deal with people who do evil things by positive thinking... "think" that they will soon "positively" die...hehehe

with whatever life or love offers us, we learn a lot from ...the most important thing is to let go of the worry or pain caused by the experience then choose to focus on the learning... then we move on, or rather, choose to move on...

you deal with hurt, hate, and all the negative feelings by focusing on things that makes you laugh, love more and cope...

be it a concern or issue of love or life or the society in general, don't worry much bianca...

we are here for you...we support and LOVE you....we are forever your cyber friends....=)

dale said...

hi bianca! since i learned about your blog, i have been reading it for some time now..and i can't help but smile whenever i am able to read about your travels and other stories..i am really a fan! i just hadn't had any time to comment or say something to you because of lack of time, but now, finally, i found the time [and probably the courage..hehe] anyway, i just wanted to say, i admire you for your hosting skills, wit, great fashon sense, your desire to make a difference, and for always empowering the youth and us, the ladies out there..and as for your recent blog entry, i think, the evils of the world are really inevitable and through them, people will be more aware of the good surrounding them, thus making us want to obliterate all the evils that remain..just go and show them how good you are and no matter how evil they are, they will do you no harm! again, i sure hope to see you in person or probably be even one of your friends[if it's not too much to ask, of course].. :) be seeing you in pbb and yspeak! take care and continue that positive,entertaining, and intelligent way of influencing people, conciously or not! :)

gelatin said...

i've asked myself that question before and believe me, we can never truly understand their reason unless we're one of them. don't you think? so when i couldn't figure them out, i simply screamed and let go. they're not worth it. basta tayo, kahit sinasaktan nila, hindi pa din tayo gaganti...we'll be happy and they'll go through their lives with the weight of knowing that all they do is hurt others.

Anonymous said...

hey ms b..sounds like ur upset..well dont be..
tlgang mrming taong gnyan msaya cla pg nkkskit ng tao
just be ur self

markymark2099 said...

Talk to someone who can help you through it..like a good friend or a family member. Whatever is making you hurt, its better to let it out, rather than keep it inside. I hope you feel better soon Bianca...and I pray that everything works out for ya!

mayorjesi said...

i have a question too, close to yours, ringing on my mind for quite sometime now: why do people choose to be bad when they can always choose to be good? and i have an answer: it's more difficult to be good. go figure.

many people, bad people, finds pleasure in doing evil things. it's a lot easier from doing good things especially if they don't believe in god. yeah, i think you only get guilty if you believe in god.

say a prayer for them. like "lord, bahala ka na sa kanila.." hehe.

mheemsical said...

I don't know. The worst thing is that sometime they are your riends and it f-ing hurts. I mean, they are doing evil things on purpose and I just can't think of a possible cause for their actuation

Anonymous said...

may mga ganyan nman tlg eh...may evil side...hehe...pero wag ka tlgng papataLO...basta daming nagmamahaL sayO..at nandyan cLA...kayang-kaya mO yan ate fight! GOdblessyou!

gretel said...

hey bianca.

sometimes we are misjudged and labeled but i think we should take all those in stride and move ahead with full confidence because we know in my hearts who we are - we are good persons trying to be better in this crazy world...

Anonymous said...

just let them. then God will do his way for you..

P.S. stay pretty and jolly.

BB_ANNE said...

that's one question...i cannot answer..hehe..tama yang tanong n yan..you can't really think why feel deliberately do or did something harmful to others.ewan ko ba sa kanila ba't d nalang mamuhay ng payapa at magtrabaho...

hopefully they'll learn how to spread world peace nlng..

Anonymous said...

why bianca? what happened?:)

Dane said...

I guess this is how the world turns around. It is a sad reality that exists and lives in this world. Masakit man isipin, ngunit ganito ang takbo ng ating buhay. Ngunit hindi ito ibig sabihin na wala na tayong magagawa para mabago ito.

(I can relate the questions to Mariel's surprise entrance to the PBB House, as well as the recent Glorietta 2 bombings that risked many innocent lives.)

Anonymous said...

ate sa mga ganyang bagay iniisip ko nalang, everything happens for a reason.
_marge

Frances said...

2 things:

1) On the Glorietta bombing. With the news updates it seems that the accident angle is still not being ruled out. Terrorist action or big bad accident, a more fundamental question that would haunt every God-believing person is "why does God allow suffering to exist?" It even becomes more thought-provoking when we realize that the victims had carried the burden of undeserved suffering. It's a mystery but as long as we keep the faith and try to seek answers the effort to be enlightened is rewarding spiritual experience.

(2) Sorry for jumping from the profound to the mundane: My sister has informed me that some posters in PEx are beginning to get annoyed by your friend who's a house guest at PBB and they call her awful names. Thinking about this makes me realize how these people have objectified celebrities, making them want to fit their own criteria of who they are supposed to be. Parang cellfone na binibili. Instead of liking people for who they are, we tend to like other for who they appear to be or what they mean to us... but when we get to know the real deal (for instance, your friend's hyperactive nature), they get turned off and even fault the other for her shortcoming. I guess that what sets apart "like" from "love." We can like someone because he/she may fit our pre-conceived notions of like-ability. But love is different. Love breaks the mold of the preconceived because the other is desired for who he/she is, including his/her shortcomings and potentials for improvement.

God speed! :)

Anonymous said...

I'm thinking other than the bomb happenings in Makati...

I'm thinking about the Manay Lolit issue...

Because Ate Bianca's an entertainment host in E.L. after all, huh?

Anyway, I think Manay Lolit shouldn't have written that article if she thinks that it's just nothing for her, right? She said that she has nothing against Piolo nor Sam.. that she wouldn't destroy or hurt Piolo nor Sam for whatever reason.. But why did she wrote it? She should have kept it to herself instead, rather than broadcast it in the world...

Kris Ablan said...

I think it was under Prof. Ibana's class that we discussed man is good.

I remember the discussion focused on man being innately good. There is no evil person. An evil act is only a manifestation of a person doing something he thinks is good.

So when a person does an evil thing to you, your interpretation is that he did an evil thing. However, on his part, he is doing a good thing. yun nga lang, "good" sa kanya.

Anyhow, if you are talking about the glorietta explosion, i think the investigators are leaning towards negligence more than an act of terrorism. It turns out there are diesel tanks underneath glorietta 2.

Anonymous said...

Hi biancs.. regarding to that question. I may justify the actions of those people but everything has a reason, has a purpose.. I don't think God will allow that if people won't learn or grow from a painful or bad experience. It has a purpose, you may not know it now but in the future it will. Like they say what that don't kill you. will only make you stronger.

ღღღAMyGaLaღღღ said...

i think those mortal semi-demons exist as cockroaches do for ecological balance.
they're ugly, they're yucky, they cause no good but to spread their ugliness and yuckiness in spaces we are living but say, that's how life goes...
that's how they are...


>hmmm... i'll have more about this on my upcoming post.. let's see...<

jing said...

why? coz SELFISHNESS exists. they don't care about other people so long as they do whatever they want to do -- do evil things just as you said, say hurtful and hateful words, blah..blah.

saddening, but that's just life i guess. if only we could change everything as to how we want the world and the people to be....

Anonymous said...

Hi Bianca..off topic to but I just want to share lang sana this lecture from Dr. Randy Pausch at Carnegie Mellon University... go to www.youtube.com and search for The last lecture of Randy Pausch. His story is amazing and inspirational. And is it okay if U just put this on your blog???? since a lot of people read it. Anyway thanks and god bless u!!!!!

LORD MANILA STONE said...

if you mean tungkol kay lolit solis at piolo at sam, evil talaga si lolit, nananahimik ang dalawa eh kung anu-anu pang sinusulat niya, some people just feel happy seeing the downful of others, napakasama ni lolit, makarma sana siya^^

dhez said...

i sometimes do ask why some people have to do bad things to those who are innocent and harmless, i really dont get the picture.. i guess the best weapon is to pray about it..

Anonymous said...

steve-o of mtv jackass fame gets his kicks by performing stunts which we deem as crazy and unnecessary. yet he continues to do such things for whatever reason, regardless of what other people may think.

perhaps we can't stop someone for doing something he wants to do. the same goes for these bad people, i guess.

jeni said...

this is a world, a "world", we must expect evil things. and remember newton's law? in every action there's an equal opposite reaction which means there's always evil and good, happiness and sadness, positive and negative, and the like. always remember that satan lives in this world he's always around to make such bad things happen and our role is to search for righteous path and walk with God through goodness in our hearts. this is scary but true that's why everytime we pray, we ask for deliverance from temptation and sin...about the glorietta bombing, i think it's another planted thing, well i don't know the real story behind this act but definitely there is. always remember what we saw in tv and news are not always true because there's always hidden facts or it may be true but definitely incomplete, lack of details and substance.

therese said...

hmmmmmm, have you read paulo coelho's the devil and miss prym?
try to read it bianca.. it's about a stranger who's searching for the answer to a question: Are human beings, in essence, good or evil?
it's a good book.. :p

Anonymous said...

in God's time, He will give us the answers. smile bianca. it might help. :)

Anonymous said...

Ms Bianca please elaborate. You are obviously upset and have not turned to the bible for answers or at a lost. Like you these questions are also in my mind

Anonymous said...

i'm also asking that same question.. it's like asking "why do bad things happen to good people.." *sigh*

dEmOiS said...

If you were referring to the Glorietta explosion, I agree with you. I just can't help but think of the same thing sometimes...But life teaches us that all things happen for a reason. Evil may pester us and deprive us of happiness we think we deserve, but we must not be taunted or whatever...coz there must be a reason why things happen so suddenly...We may never know the exact answer to that question because we aren't omniscient, but all we can do against it is to pray and hold on tight to God. Have a nice day...ü

Anonymous said...

The world my child operates on a balance. A lot of evil is a result of too much left understood, uncommunicated, unsaid, unfelt, unheard. Move in the direction of goodness and goodness will follow you dear Bianca. Too many questions unanswered? You will find them soon for as long as you see the purpose of things are to add up to your understanding and enlightenment. Too many people just wish not to be alone -- not knowing that they really are "not" alone. Too many wrongs are done because people believe they are alone. Smile Bianca, the world of goodness begins with it. If people were only aware of the power of goodness even in its smallest forms. Understandably, it is because it is harder to do, find, act on goodness in a world that refuses to believe it exists with sincerity.

cash ( dirigid@gmail.com ) said...

why do some people do such evil things?

*** ignorance? fear? these may be the 2 major reasons. im not saying they will get away with it because there is a reason for doing bad things. God loves all people but when you sin, you get punished whether or not you ask for forgiveness and one only receives forgiveness when he/she asks for it. for the victims, God will take care of them. for us left behind, we should be ready cos its possible that we land in their shoes.. i hope not.


don't they get guilty, or don't they feel bad?

*** im only sure of the future, they will be guilty and will pay for it (karma)


and.. how are you supposed to deal with that?

*** we rise above our emotions and never lose faith. for it is better to be dead and fighting than have a dead spirit and still live in this world. Trust that there is more good than bad and dwell only on the good.

Anonymous said...

Napaka-Uber mo talaga, Bianca!!

Go Kuya!!

Anonymous said...

you really don't please anybody,we must pray for them to guide them in the right path and enlighten them

ysagani said...

-why do some people do such evil things?
it's part of being human, really.
it just depends on how other people measure the evil act...

...spreading tsismis is evil but it seems normal to alot of people because it occurs everytime...

...saying 'putang ina', 'bobo', 'inutil', or 'ulol' for me is also evil but those words fire out of our mouths way too casually...

...and there's plenty of other evil things that we commit but are not aware of.
may it be hurting a person or hurting the world,
kupit man ng piso mula kay lola or corrupting the money of the state...
people seem to judge depending only on how great the damage is.

think it over, guys.
little did we know, we might be acting worse than our foul politicians, notorious terrorists or even Manay Lolit. ;p



-don't they get guilty, or don't they feel bad?
i think they still do. but as the saying goes, "nasa huli ang pagsisisi"...


-and.. how are you supposed to deal with that?
just remember the line in the prayer that our Lord taught us,
"...and forgive us, our sins as we forgive those who sin against us..."
amen?:)

Anonymous said...

hey bianca. tsok.

debbie said...

ano ba ikinagagalit mo?

Anonymous said...

huh??
I cant believe this..
hindi mo pinose comment ko??
How dare you??

Anonymous said...

yan din lage ang tanong ko sa sarili ko e. "bakit may mga taong ganun ang ugali?" nakakalungkot isipin.

Celine said...

people do evil things because they think of themselves. if they still have a bit of goodness in them, they'll feel sorry soon. let's just pray that they'll repent on it.

lora said...

Ate bianca...that's the harsh reality of life..!

people like them are pathetically unhappy with their lives..

pag dasal na lang natin sila na malinawan na sila.

Lovelei said...

hey bianca, have been reading your blog for quite some time now.i also have wondered why those things happen. i guess those kind of people have messed up values. if they do something bad they tend to rationalize it as doing something good or they just get so used to it that they are not aware what they are doing is bad. if you psych them out they tend to have a lot if insecurities that they tend to mask it by doing bad things to make them feel powerful. but i guess its part of life,that thing that matters most is "you" not doing the same things that they are doing.

Anonymous said...

Hany naku Bianca.. I super agree!! Na emote ako sa post mo because just recently someone did something soooo evil to me and I don't understand why! I guess we just have to deal with it, we just have to survive because as much as we'd love to, we can't please everyone!

I guess you just have to be the bigger person in situations like this and act maturely kase pag pinatulan mo, that means you're stooping down to their level...

Hay naku.

-miles

Anonymous said...

i guess you can do nothing about them.. for sure there will always be bad persons going around the world... i guess the least we can do is not count ourselves into that "society of evil minded persons".. there is so much beauty in this world.. just give your attention to them and forget those bad circumstances...

smile always and be happy!!
i'm one of your biggest fans!!!
i love you...

Anonymous said...

how intruiging naman 'yan 'te bianx.....


does anybody hurt you?
if they will, i would really felt bad...


sna nman wala...

bianx kip up d gud work, u really h'inspire me

trish said...

hi ms bianca.. i really love your blog.. can i put you on my list of links?...thanx po ^_^

Mon said...

Hey, can you bring back PBB Uplate?

I a nursing student and I sometimes have 3-10PM duties... I travel 1 and half hour from the hospital to my house.

pinkcatsandchocolates said...

hi bianca. :) can i add your blog on my links?

ysagani said...

won't you answer your questions on this post?
i wonder what's on your mind....

...can you comment on my answer?
if it's not to much to ask. >wink<

Anonymous said...

it is so sad what the world has come to.

Anonymous said...

Should we go ahead and ask about how they grew up? :) Whatever happened to family values? Education or perhaps whoever they were with made them that much evil who thinks they can always get away from what they'll do.

Hi B! Laughtrip ka nung you had Ma have that kiss!

-Kas

irish_joy said...

hello! at last, i find my time to leave a comment here. i cried when i saw the news about the glorietta blast last friday. i cant help seeing people's dreams to be shattered in just a few seconds, blowing them from the reality of life. i can't convince myself that it was thru lpg explosion or diesel or methane gas blast. medyo malaki ang damage kasi. even the experts testify that it is possible that it was because of these gasses. unless, it was intentionally done. bakit nga
ba sila ganun? bakit nga ba nila kayang gawin ang mga bagay na para sumira ng properties, ng buhay at ng mga pangarap. if these people who are bad do such things, then we the good ones can do something about it. minsan kasi kulang sa aksyon ang mga mababait. minsan kasi wala tayong ginagawa para itama ang dapat itama, ituwid ang dapat ituwid. man by nature is really good. kung bakit sila nagiging masama, nasa satin ang mga kasagutan. let's all pray for the souls who passed away because of that incident plus the loved ones they left behind and those who are still recovering. have a blessed day and keep the faith bianca! take care! stay safe!

mayorjesi said...

hey bianca, i understand that you supported edsa 2, edsa 2 was erap's fall (or gma's succession), then you supported erap's fall (or gma's succession). now, erap is free, what can you say?

Anonymous said...

God knows best when to punish and have all the evil people suffer.

Let them all do their bad deeds. At the end of the day GOD will reign over their powerless acts.

leslie said...

pa plug lang! watch bianca and toni at "Entertainment Live" today at 3 pm after wowowee <<<

Stephen said...

Yeah! His name is Erap. And we just pardoned him. Only in the Philippines!

GreenMangoes said...

I'll answer that with one of my favorite quote from my favorite writer, Mario Puzo.

"Evil often springs from a man's desire to do good."

Sabi din ni Bishop Ongtioco of Diocese of Cubao, "Evil is not only the act of doing bad to anyone. It is also the "refusal" to the good thing or "having the capacity" or having the "awareness" to do good that makes it more evil.

cooLetbaiT said...

nice question ms.versatile,,as we all know we are all different..we cant please everybody to make good things..maybe they are in bad situation or the insecurities thing..or to get our attention that they may say "hey im doing this because its what i like" many people doing that thing..how sad to know that there are people like to do evil things,,even if its the life involve..as said, we just pray God our Lord to enlighten those people..and realize them what they do!!be safe all of us.."_)

fatsy said...

wow, finally! at long last! lino's got his hair cut short short..and im soooooooooo extra pleased!! aren't you pleased too, bianca? well, (super) di kasi bagay sa kanya ang long hair cuz it just makes him look hideous...but now with his new image, he has never looked soooooooooo good!! i like him now! (haha) see how "hair crowns your beauty?"

Junelle said...

Bianca, you are the only one left to voice for the Big Brothers house. Toni is in now. Good luck to your solo stressful hosting.

Anonymous said...

alalay =)
-neighbor

ladyingreen said...

i sometimes ask that question to myself. why do evil things? are they glad to see people suffering? well, i guess some of them do. we cannot predict or sense what's on their mind. i sometimes convince myself that they will realize all the bad things they've done and maybe eventually change, i just hope they do. let's just pray for them and hope that they will have better things to do rather than hurting other people.
godbless..

Nikka said...

hi! di nio po ito kailangan iappove.. haha.. baka po pwede nio iview ung blog ko... comment ka sa latest post ko.. kasi kelangan lang talaga ng advice thanks!

The Olympics Blogger said...

Hi there Bianca!

It's nice to have found your blog! I'm a fan. Not a crazy fan... Just a fan. :D

The thing in Glorietta, maybe it was just a freak accident... Anything can happen you know...

I hope you check out my own blog below:

Mhai said...

hi ate bianca. im also confused with that. bakit nga ba? T___T

Anonymous said...

sometimes may mga taong talagang ikinasisiya nila na gumawa ng di magagandang bagay..pero kadalasan ung iba nagagawa nila yun kasi gipit sila at they just have to do that for their own sake..

arlene said...

hi bianca,
came across your blog and started reading all your entries.having a pretty face and beautiful mind all in one is rare.just wondering,bakit ala kang entries ng yr.2006?

God bless and will be visiting ur page always.

Anonymous said...

IN OUR LOVES WE FIND OUR LACK. A friend told me once. And this doesn't only apply to material things we love, but also of the kinds of people we wish we had in our lives. Money, people and stature that people pursue may be signs of what ultimately needs resolution, completion, understanding within us. Only then do we realize that what we loved in the beginning is not really what we needed. It is hard for one to be immersed in a highly cosmeticized industry where material things are signs of stature. That is why you are admirable dear Bianca. See them with the eyes of understanding, each one is on a journey to find their fulfillment -- some not knowing that what they pursue will only be temporary, and some pursue what they know will be for their better good.

beetledom said...

"LIFE IS VERY SHORT AND THERE'S NO
TIME FOR FUSSING AND FIGHTING MY FRIEND...

I HAVE ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT IT'S A CRIME...SO I WILL ASK YOU ONCE AGAIN"

"We Can Work It Out"
c1965
by: Lennon & McCartney

renz / renzy_benzy / Charlie Wonka Jr. said...

hi ate bianca and to all avid reader's of her blog!!! i just made an open letter regarding sa discrimination ng mga americans sa atin (we, filipinos.)

hope you like it and if you don't mind, please spread it hanggang sa maabot yun samga americano.


ito nga pala ang link ng blog ko:
(just in case if you copy and paste it sa email.. just press ctrl C since na disable ng javascript ang right click sa blog ko, like yours.. sorry! =]] )

http://chocoholic-memories.blogspot.com

please ate bianca.. thank you ate! god bless!

Anonymous said...

HI,

I used to think you were such a great person after reading your blog. It gave me insight on things that i thought mattered. After meeting you in person however i was turned off by the way you acted. I cannot express the sadness and disappointment i felt upon finding out that you were not the person i thought you were.

I guess you can't please everyone right? but then again atleast some people dont pretend to be nice then turn out not to be...

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Anonymous said...

maybe they have their own insecurities in life that they couldnt sort out. kya malamang shineshare na lang nila sa iba.. :)

=girl from SPAIN= said...

Hi bianca. I'm jad. I like tis post. i kinda think about things like that often. I don't know why people tend to be like that. well, yung iba lang naman. i dont want to generalize. i like your blog. unlike my blog kasi mine is so amateurish kasi i'm just starting out. hehehe =) uhm can i call you ate bianca pala? i'm 16 palang po kasi. =)

alyannah said...

i think its just about choices: you choose to be in the right track or its the other way around. There are just some people who think that doing the "evil" acts would benefit them,and as to what they say:"masarap gawin ang bawal." But I think people should take into consideration the things that are being affected by their wrong doings...

cla.rice said...

Hi biancs. I've been storing this text message for months in my cellphone para lang ma i-share sa'yo, sabi: Treat everyone with kindness, even those who are rude to you.. not because they are not nice but because YOU are. Super na-feel ko 'yan.